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I blew up to FORTY stone after eating 4 bacon butties for breakfast & 6 litres of Coke a day to please my ‘feeder’ ex
A WOMAN who blew up to 40st says she drank six litres of Coke a day to please her “feeder” ex.
Sarah Brown, 51, said it got to the point where she didn’t know what to do after the NHS told her it could not operate on the huge “Elephant man” style growths on her legs.
The now 51-year-old recalled: “Food was his way of controlling me. He used to sit and watch me eat.
“The bigger I was, the more care I needed.
“I think he was losing control when I was losing the weight and he didn’t want to bother with it any more.
“I started to hear him say ‘if you don’t need me, you can do it yourself’.
“He would come home and find I had done the washing up as I could stand up.
“I managed to shower and dry myself.”
She said she ballooned in weight to 40st after he fed her takeaways, sugary drinks and unhealthy snacks for breakfast, lunch and dinner.
In 2019, Sarah decided to shift the weight and asked her doctor for a gastric bypass.
Sarah says she feels like a new woman now Credit: The Sun
She said: “I was trying to get up to go to the toilet and I couldn’t get out of the chair.
“And then I thought no I’m not, so I picked up the phone and asked my doctor to refer me for a gastric bypass.
“They said I had to lose weight before I could have the operation.
“So I reduced my calorie intake to 800 calories a day.
“I lost 100lbs before I had the operation.”
Sarah continued to lose five to six pounds a week in the first few months after she had the operation at Homerton University Hospital in 2021.
However, she continued to suffer from agonising pain as a result of Lymphoedema – a condition that causes swelling due to a failure of the lymphatic system.
She said: “I was walking like John Wayne had lost his horse.
“The lump on my right thigh would get bigger during the day and would then go back to the size of a bowling ball at night.
“It would rip the skin on the inside of my thigh.
“Sometimes when I sat down the lump would get caught behind my leg and I’d sit on it, which would tear the skin.
“My lower legs were the same size as my father’s waistband. My upper legs were even bigger.”
Sarah was left suicidal after the NHS told her that compression tights were the only way to treat her condition.
She almost gave up hope before she met Oxford Lymphoedema Practice’s Professor Dominic Furniss, who told her he could operate on the growths.
Sarah finally had the procedure in October last year after her friends and family came together to raise enough money for the op.
Describing the procedure, Professor Furniss said: “Sarah was admitted to hospital for 10 days prior to the operation, where we performed specialist lymphoedema compression bandaging every day.
Sarah said that although the operation has not cured her lymphoedema, it has reduced the pain she suffers on a daily basis.
She added: “It has been truly life-changing.
“I can now pull up my compression tights all the way to my waist.
“I can wear normal clothes, fit in showers and hotel beds and my self-care has improved drastically.
“And I can stand to make my own food.
“I feel like a new woman.”
She says her friends helped her get the money to have a ‘life-changing’ surgery on her legsCredit: The Sun
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